So they say once a cheater always a cheater. But are cheaters born to cheat, or do certain situations cause people to cheat!? So im going to give you some reasons why I think people cheat.
-BORED: I probably say this is definitely one of the reasons do to the fact that it is hard to keep that fire going. To always have those butterflies when your phone rings or getting ready to go out with the. Things always start off in the DREAM world and you are on cloud nine but thing start to level off and you realize its back to the real world. So what do people do!? They get bored and seek for that feeling in somebody else and that goes in to the next reason…
-DEPENDENCE/INDEPENDENC: Most people think cheating is more of and independent thing to do. Standing ground on the whole, “I can do what I want when I want to.” When in reality it’s the complete opposite. It’s a person being insecure with them selves. Not being able to be real to there partner. You are being dependent on your partner and not being strong enough to break up with them.
-CONFUSION: You don’t know if you want to be with them so you test yourself. But personally if you are second guessing yourself then something needs to change with in your relation ship before you step outside your relationship. Remember always close one door before you open another. Unless you are going to walk through that door together.
-BECAUSE THEY LET YOU: If I was cheated on I wouldn’t stay with them. I have been in that situation and tried to move past it but its like once that trust is lost the relationship is over. Forgiving somebody who cheated on you is one thing but to stay with them is another.
-REVENGE: This is very simple; an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. Not realizing that we can’t control KARMA and how people treat us if there karma and how we react is ours.
-MAKING SURE “WE STILL GOT IT”: egotistical thing to do but definitely true and happens all the time. Makes you feel good to know you can get the attention from the hot guy/girl when you are out and about. But in doing that you allow that door to be knocked on most people don’t open it but some do.
-THRILL: Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, and creating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
Some people don’t realize that what they do is considered cheating. If you are exclusively dating somebody with out a title and you go and do something. It is a form of cheating. You are hurting the person you so call care for.
I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?
-BORED: I probably say this is definitely one of the reasons do to the fact that it is hard to keep that fire going. To always have those butterflies when your phone rings or getting ready to go out with the. Things always start off in the DREAM world and you are on cloud nine but thing start to level off and you realize its back to the real world. So what do people do!? They get bored and seek for that feeling in somebody else and that goes in to the next reason…
-DEPENDENCE/INDEPENDENC: Most people think cheating is more of and independent thing to do. Standing ground on the whole, “I can do what I want when I want to.” When in reality it’s the complete opposite. It’s a person being insecure with them selves. Not being able to be real to there partner. You are being dependent on your partner and not being strong enough to break up with them.
-CONFUSION: You don’t know if you want to be with them so you test yourself. But personally if you are second guessing yourself then something needs to change with in your relation ship before you step outside your relationship. Remember always close one door before you open another. Unless you are going to walk through that door together.
-BECAUSE THEY LET YOU: If I was cheated on I wouldn’t stay with them. I have been in that situation and tried to move past it but its like once that trust is lost the relationship is over. Forgiving somebody who cheated on you is one thing but to stay with them is another.
-REVENGE: This is very simple; an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. Not realizing that we can’t control KARMA and how people treat us if there karma and how we react is ours.
-MAKING SURE “WE STILL GOT IT”: egotistical thing to do but definitely true and happens all the time. Makes you feel good to know you can get the attention from the hot guy/girl when you are out and about. But in doing that you allow that door to be knocked on most people don’t open it but some do.
-THRILL: Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, and creating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
Some people don’t realize that what they do is considered cheating. If you are exclusively dating somebody with out a title and you go and do something. It is a form of cheating. You are hurting the person you so call care for.
I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?
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